Friday, April 1, 2011

Divorce Happens

I'm no expert on this but I do think my eyes have been opened a little more when it comes to this subject. I am forever grateful that I have parents that are in love and continue to work together to have a life through eternity. This last week we talked about divorce, it is tough stuff. I don't have too much of an opinion on this subject; I believe that if you are in a situation where there is pain on a daily basis and after work there has been no improvement then you should leave. The Lord wants us to be happy and if you are no longer in a situation that makes you happy after you've tried every which way to get there then it's time to leave.
I hope that I am never faced with divorce, I hope my friends and family aren't either. My professor did give some advice if divorce is the case. First you have to hit the point of being done. You can't be on a line you have to be done. Second don't date until 6months after the divorce is final. Next after you do find someone it is going to take 2 years for normalcy to happen. And if you do get married and one has kids, let the birth parent to be the one to provide correction.
Again I'm not going to say it is bad or good; it's whatever is best for the whole.